The Polygamist Is Not a Story About Polygamy
I have watched the much talked about Netflix series, The Polygamist. Like many people, I have also followed the conversations it has generated on social media. Much of the discussion has centred on one issue: unhappy women in polygamous relationships. The series has clearly struck a nerve. Many women see their own experiences reflected in the story. Yet I think there is a danger in reducing The Polygamist to a conversation about polygamy. To do so is to mistake the stage for the play. The series is not necessarily about polygamy. Even Sue Nyathi, the writer of The Polygamist, the book on which the series is based reveals this in an interview with Newzroom Afrika , “ Jonasi is a narcissist. I didn’t know that word then, but if I had known it then I would have probably called it The Narc, maybe, and not the Polygamist.” The Polygamist is about a man who cannot take responsibility and account for his actions. It is about a man who struggles to say sorry. It is about a ma...